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最近,压力实在有一点大;很多时候我想用我自己的方式做事情，我不希望其他人打扰或插手,但我也能理解一件事是有很多的解决方案.As there is no one right answer, just like a cube they are made up of 6 sides each and every side could become an opening there is no such thing like only side A could become the opening.I know it is time for me to go for a vacation (probably Genting Highlands) so i decided to ask my friends whether any of them could join me but most of them said "no,I am sorry not free on that day" haiz what a disappointing answer...this leads me to rethink the Q:Why do we need a friend as they are not there when you need them ?(Although i know they got there own life and it wouldn't be fair for me to say that or i shouldn't even think like that ) but to be honest i do feel disappointed with the answer that they gave.I suddenly think of what one of my friend had told me before : '' you born alone , you die alone no one could help when you are in trouble  you have to solve your problem on your own" that time i still argue with her saying :'' oh no you are wrong , you are being too negative you should think positively ."but i cant deny that i seem to agree with her statement now or maybe just for now ...